Have you read Spencer Harbar's rational guide? I'm not sure if he covers your problem as I've not had to do multi tenancy yet, however his guides are always pretty spot on.
http://www.harbar.net/articles/sp2010mt5.aspx
Thats the link for part 5 which covers the actualy configuration.
Paul.
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